The Real Housewives of New Jersey star Melissa Gorga wants to keep her marriage to Joe Gorga hot and steamy, so she tries to do several things to keep his attention. for one, she has launched a successful singing career, performing in sexy outfits that her husband can only be proud of. she is also an attentive mother, raising Joe’s children to love their parents and be respectful to family members despite having a troubling sister-in-law, Teresa Giudice. however, there is one thing Melissa does to keep things hot between her and Joe. she pretends to be something she isn’t anymore—she pretends to be Joe’s girlfriend rather than his wife.
In a recent interview with US Weekly, Melissa explains that it is easier for her to keep the marriage hot and spicy if she pretends that she is his girlfriend. “I still play hard to get,” she explains after being married to Joe for eight years. she keeps the spark alive by making him work for it, rather than just relaxing because she got the ring and he got the woman. “Every once in a while, I act like I’m his girlfriend and he can’t have me,” says Melissa. “Men want what they can’t have. When is everyone going to realize this?”
This The Real Housewives of New Jersey star could have found the key to keep a marriage exciting and hot! if she isn’t dishing out everytime he wants her attention, he won’t get bored with her. And keeping things fresh, such as trying a singing career and being a reality show, will surely keep things new and exciting. Perhaps some of her co-stars could learn from their marriage.